Sex Addiction Therapist in Fort Myers
Escape Addiction and Discover True Intimacy
I help individuals struggling with sex addiction, betrayal, unresolved trauma and porn addiction, break free from shame and chaos so they can regain trust, rebuild relationships, and feel whole again.
Regain Control
Take charge of your emotions and behaviors so you feel less overwhelmed.
Rebuild Relationships
Learn new ways to connect with your partner, even after betrayal or years of disconnection.
Heal From Pain
Let go of shame, isolation, and emotional wounds that have been holding you back.
Therapy and Support for Unwanted Sexual Behaviors
Are you stuck in a cycle that feels impossible to break? Maybe you’ve tried to stop certain behaviors, but no matter how much you promise yourself, the same patterns keep showing up. You might be battling shame, secrecy, or fear of losing the people who matter most to you.
If your partner has hurt you, maybe you’re asking, “Will I ever feel safe again?” You could feel shattered by betrayal, questioning whether the relationship is worth saving, or struggling to even think about moving forward.
For couples, the constant fights or silence between you can feel like a wall that gets harder to break down every day.
These feelings can be overwhelming, but they don’t have to stay this way.
I am Rena Essrog
I am a licensed clinical social worker and a certified sex addiction therapist with almost 30 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families. I believe finding the right therapist is based on feeling safe, accepted, supported and understood.
My focus is to provide a space where you feel safe and supported, without judgment. Together, we’ll explore what’s been weighing you down and find practical ways to move forward.
With training in sex addiction, trauma therapy, and relationship counseling, I’ve worked with countless individuals and couples to uncover what’s at the root of their struggles. Whether it’s learning how to stop harmful patterns, rebuilding trust, or healing from deep pain, there’s a path forward—and you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Therapy Services
Sex Addiction Counseling
Stop compulsive sexual behaviors and break free from shame to regain control of your life.
Relationship Counseling
Resolve conflicts, improve communication, and rebuild the connection with your partner.
Infidelity Counseling
Heal from betrayal and rebuild trust, or find clarity about the future of your relationship.
Partners of Sex Addicts
Process the pain of betrayal and decide whether to repair or move forward with your life.
Let's Make a Plan
Free Consultation
Call for a 15-minute phone consultation to share what you’re facing and ask any questions.
Personalized Therapy Plan
We’ll outline a step-by-step plan based on your needs.
Your Healing Journey
Regular sessions with ongoing support to help you feel lighter, more connected, and in control.
You Deserve to be Happy
Happiness isn’t something you have to earn, it’s something you’re meant to feel. I know it might not seem possible right now, but the weight you’re carrying doesn’t have to stay with you forever. You are worthy of healing, of peace, and of a life that feels full and true.
Working With Me as Your Therapist Means:
Safe, Judgment-Free Space
Share your struggles in a safe, supportive space without fear of being judged.
Expert in Trauma and Addiction
Get help from a therapist with decades of experience and specialized training.
Grow and Move Forward
Understand how your past impacts today and grow into a stronger version of you.
Actionable Tools That Work
Learn clear, actionable strategies to break patterns and create healthier habits.
Empathy Meets Expertise
Work with a therapist who combines expertise with genuine understanding and care.
Customized Couples Support
Improve communication and connection with personalized relationship support.
Break Free and Move Forward
It’s okay to feel stuck. When you’re caught in cycles of pain, shame, or heartbreak, it can feel like nothing will ever change. Maybe you’ve tried to fix it on your own, but the same patterns keep pulling you back. This doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’ve been carrying too much for too long, and it’s time to let someone help.
Change starts with one step. It’s not about being perfect, it’s about choosing to heal, to rebuild, and to find peace again. Therapy gives you the tools to break free from the pain, regain control, and create a life that feels lighter and more fulfilling. You don’t have to stay stuck. You can take back your life, and I’m here to help you do it.
Inside the Numbers
25%
of sex addicts are Female
64%
of sex addicts have a family history of substance use disorder
97%
of sex addicts have a family history of emotional abuse
83%
of sex addicts have a family history of sexual abuse
Carnes, P. (1991). Don’t call it love: Recovery from sexual addiction. New York, NY: Bantam.
Break Free From the Hidden Pain Driving Sex Addiction
Sex addiction often stems from deep-rooted pain and past trauma. These staggering numbers highlight how personal history and unresolved trauma can fuel destructive patterns.
Understanding these connections is a key step toward healing, and therapy can provide the tools to break free and reclaim your life.
