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Counseling For Partners of Sex Addicts In Fort Myers, FL

Helping Partners of Sex Addicts Heal from Betrayal Trauma

Discovering your partner’s betrayal can feel like your world has shattered. The trust you built is gone, leaving you drowning in a sea of anger, confusion, and heartbreak. If their actions stem from sexual addiction, the pain cuts even deeper, and you may feel ashamed, lost, or unsure of how to move forward. You’re left wondering: How did this happen? Can I ever trust them again? Will I ever feel whole?


Betrayal trauma creates complex emotional and behavioral patterns due to being hurt so deeply by the person you love the most. It is difficult to heal when the person who hurt you is also part of the healing process.


Together, we can work through the anger, grief, and mistrust to help you regain your sense of safety and control. Whether you’re seeking clarity about your relationship or simply want to feel like yourself again, therapy can guide you toward the peace and strength you deserve. Let’s take the first step together.

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Understanding Therapy for Partners of Sex Addicts

Therapy for partners of sex addicts isn’t just about understanding what happened. It’s about helping you find your footing after the ground has been ripped out from beneath you. Together, we address the unique trauma of betrayal, including feelings of self-doubt, grief, and loss.



You’ll learn tools to process your emotions, set boundaries, and rebuild your sense of safety and trust—whether that’s with your partner or within yourself. Therapy focuses on you and your needs, offering a space to heal from the wounds of betrayal trauma.

A Trusted Guide to Help You Heal After Betrayal Trauma

My name is Rena Essrog, and I understand the unique pain you’re experiencing because I’ve devoted my career to helping partners of sex addicts heal from betrayal trauma. With specialized training and certification in this field, I bring expertise and compassion to guide you through the overwhelming emotions of mistrust, anger, and grief. I’m someone who understands how deeply this pain cuts and how critical it is to have someone who truly gets it.


Through my practice, I’ve helped many partners like you regain a sense of safety, clarity, and strength. I offer a safe, nonjudgmental space where your fears are validated, your pain is heard, and your needs are prioritized. You’ll find guidance and a clear path forward, step by step.


Whether you’re working toward rebuilding trust in your relationship or focusing on your personal growth. This is your journey, and I’m here to help you navigate it with the care and expertise you deserve.

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The Struggles of Emotional Recovery After Infidelity

Being the partner of a sex addict can feel like carrying an invisible weight that few truly understand. Here are some of the most common struggles faced by partners of sex addicts:

Emotional Trauma: Many partners experience symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), including hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, and emotional numbness due to the betrayal.


Feeling Like Life Is a Lie: The discovery of the addiction can feel like the rug has been pulled out from under you, leaving you questioning everything about your relationship.


Trust Issues: It’s common to struggle with trusting your partner—or anyone—after such a deep betrayal, leaving you constantly worried about more infidelity.


Emotional Abuse: Partners often face gaslighting, blame-shifting, or criticism, which adds to the confusion and can erode your sense of self-worth.


Challenges Even in Recovery: Sobriety doesn’t always bring relief if the addict doesn’t address deeper relational issues or past abusive behaviors, leaving partners feeling stuck.


Lack of Understanding: Many partners find it difficult to get empathy or support from others who don’t fully grasp the severity and complexity of what they’re going through.

A Path to Healing for Partners of Sex Addicts

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Let’s start with a simple, pressure-free conversation to understand your story and what you need. This first step is about creating a safe space to explore how I can support your healing.

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Personalized Therapy Sessions

Each session is tailored to your unique challenges. Whether working on personal growth or rebuilding trust, we’ll focus on what matters most to you and move at a pace that feels right.

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Proven Techniques and Support

You’ll learn practical techniques to handle the pain, set boundaries, and rebuild trust. Together, we’ll help you regain control and work toward a stronger, more secure future.

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Begin Rebuilding Trust and Finding Yourself Again

Betrayal hurts, but it doesn’t have to define your life. You deserve to feel secure and whole again. Let’s take the first step together—schedule your free consultation today.

What Life Could Look Like After Relationship Counseling

Right now, it might feel impossible to see beyond the pain. But imagine waking up without that heavy weight on your chest. Picture yourself trusting again, whether that’s in your partner, your friends, or yourself.


Healing doesn’t mean forgetting or ignoring the betrayal. It means finding peace in your heart and clarity in your decisions. You could emerge stronger, more confident, and ready to embrace a future filled with hope and possibilities.

Frequently Asked Questions About Therapy For Sex Addiction Partners

  • Is it possible to have a healthy relationship with a sex addict?

    Yes, but it takes hard work from both partners. The addict needs to commit to recovery, and both of you need to focus on rebuilding trust. This involves open communication, setting boundaries, and working through the pain together. With the right support and time, a healthy relationship is possible.

  • Can a sex addict ever be faithful?

    They can, but it requires real effort and commitment to recovery. It’s about more than just stopping the behaviors, it’s being commited to honesty, accountability, and repairing the damage. With therapy and consistent work, faithfulness is something they can achieve.

  • Why do sex addicts get angry?

    Sex addicts often get angry because they feel ashamed, defensive, or overwhelmed. Confronting their behavior or recovery can bring up a lot of emotions. Their anger isn’t your responsibility to fix, but understanding it can help you set boundaries and protect yourself. Therapy can provide tools to navigate these situations.

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