About Rena Essrog MSS, LCSW, CSAT

Finding Strength and Healing in Difficult Times

Do you feel like the weight of shame, betrayal, or compulsive behaviors is keeping you from the life you want? Are you wondering if your relationships can survive and heal after trust has been broken?


I’m here to help. I specialize in working with individuals, couples, and families facing challenges like compulsive sexual behaviors, addiction, and the aftermath of betrayal. My practice is rooted in creating a safe, supportive space where you can explore these struggles and work toward meaningful change. Together, we can navigate the complexities of your experiences and uncover the path to healing and connection.

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Dedicated to Making a Difference

My journey as a therapist began over 28 years ago, but the seeds were planted long before that. While working at a residential treatment center for teenage girls, I saw firsthand the devastating effects of emotional neglect, abuse, and trauma. Many of the girls came from fractured families and turned to destructive behaviors as a way to cope. Their stories stayed with me, sparking a deep passion to make a difference.


This calling led me to Bryn Mawr College Graduate School of Social Work and Social Research, where I earned my Master of Social Service in 1995. Over the years, my work has evolved, from helping children to supporting families and couples. My desire to provide comprehensive support inspired me to complete advanced training in marriage and family therapy and to pursue certification in sex addiction treatment. These experiences have shaped my empathetic and collaborative approach.

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Expertise You Can Trust

When it comes to addressing compulsive sexual behaviors and the ripple effects they create, expertise matters. Here’s what I bring to the table:

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Licensed Clinical Social Worker

With nearly three decades of experience in social work, I’ve worked with a diverse range of clients, including individuals, couples, and families.

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Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT)

My training with IITAP and experts like Dr. Patrick Carnes, Stephanie Carnes, and Alex Katehakis, equips me with cutting-edge tools and research to effectively treat compulsive sexual behaviors.

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Advanced Training in Couples Therapy

I completed a post-master’s program in marriage and family therapy at the Council for Relationships in 2007, allowing me to address complex relationship challenges, including infidelity and trust rebuilding.

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Ongoing Education

I continue to receive monthly supervision with Alex Katehakis to stay current on the most effective strategies and insights in sex addiction treatment.

Core Beliefs That Shape My Work

At the heart of my practice are values that guide every session:


Respect: Meeting you where you are with compassion and understanding.


Honesty: Creating a foundation for trust and meaningful change.


Hope: Holding space for healing and transformation, even when it feels impossible.


These principles form the foundation of the safe and affirming environment I strive to create, allowing you to explore the most challenging parts of your journey with confidence and courage.

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A Collaborative and Supportive Approach

I believe therapy is a partnership. You are the expert on your life, and I bring the expertise in relationships and addiction to help you uncover the key to your happiness. Together, we’ll explore the roots of your struggles and work toward practical solutions that create lasting change.


In therapy with me, you’ll find a space that’s confidential and safe. I'll give you a place where your worries, secrets, and fears can be voiced without judgment. My approach is grounded in respect, trust, and collaboration, ensuring that each session is tailored to your specific goals and needs.

Therapy is a Gateway to Freedom and Growth

The benefits of therapy last way beyond the immediate challenges you’re facing.

Here’s what you can expect:


  • Freedom from self-limiting behaviors and thoughts.
  • Greater understanding of how your past shapes your present.
  • Reduced reliance on self-medication, whether through substances, behaviors, or distractions.
  • A renewed perspective on relationships and life.
  • Release from the burden of secrets and shame.
  • Increased self-confidence and inner peace.


Therapy is a transformative process, offering you the chance to rebuild trust, rediscover your worth, and reclaim your life.